There are a couple of threads on disabling the "Message Sent" notification bubble, such as this thread. Here's something different. If you still want the message sent notification to appear but in a different way, you can also do so.
Registry Key: HKCU\Control Panel\Notifications\Default
Registry Value: Options
Registry Data: 0 to 11
Here are the description for the different registry data values:
0 - show icon
1 - show icon and play notification sound
2 - show icon and vibration
3 - show icon and vibration and play notification sound
4 - same as 0
5 - same as 1
6 - same as 3
7 - same as 3
8 - show icon and notification bubble
9 - show icon and play notification sound and show notification bubble
10 - show icon and notification bubble and vibration
11 - show icon and play notification sound and show notification bubble and vibration
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